Life, new and improved

het·er·o·nor·ma·tive /ˌhedərōˈnôrmədiv/ adjective: denoting or relating to a world view that promotes heterosexuality as the normal or preferred sexual orientation. Beyond just sexual orientation this extends into gay relationship models of what relationships should look like. Partnering intentionally is a privilege that has only fully formed in the last few generations. So how did we get it stuck in our heads so fast that they could only be this one way? Oh right, Hollywood and media... the fairytale. Being gay used to mean something special.  There were no social rules on what our relationships had to look like because we were already taboo!  But in the fight for equality, we lost a part of that identity, we forgot that we are  different and that this is ok.  Not only ok but powerful in forging our own way.  And on that journey, we forgot about our diverse family of trans, gender fluid, all the letters of the alphabet, and people of color who have fought alongside us.  Once a

A few months ago I approached my manager about an  Aptitude test called YouScience  that I had been looking into between jobs.  I asked if they would be interested in seeing the results if I took it.  The response was emphatically "YES!". As someone in tech for under 2 years, I've often wondered  WHERE exactly my place is within the industry.  How I Got Here A little background... I'm formally trained as an architect so the design nerd is strong with this one, but after years of that, I decided to mix it up a bit.  I ended up in 2 years of volunteer work doing community economic development, then for the better part of a decade progressed through facilities and labor, fueling planes 1000's of miles from anywhere, carpentry and expedition outfitting, even learning an entire seasonal product life cycle and training a team on it.  In between seasons, I explored my pilot's license, professional dancing, existing out of a #vanlife style pickup truck

UPDATE:  https://lifenewandimproved.blogspot.com/2020/06/diy-sleeping-and-storage-platform-for-2.html  final wood measurements added over here!  Read more below for actual construction tips and tricks. I searched and searched for a system for a two door Jeep Wrangler JL that wasn't just a small rear storage system but also contained the entire rear of the vehicle and also extended to sleep on diagonally.  I'll admit it may have been a big ask... so I went about making one myself. I started with measurements and a general idea of what I wanted to achieve.  Knowing damn well I'd have to make adjustments and would make discoveries that limit the plan as I went along.  I had hoped initially to make it out of two or three large pieces and a hatch.  The goal was to hide all seems and the hatch hinge for security purposes but even with the seams it turned out pretty beefy and difficult to break into.  As with any car thing if someone REALLY wants in I'm sure they

Ten years ago I got on a plane in rural Idaho and made my way towards Ploiesti, Romania for service in the United States Peace Corps.  Not only was that a big step but many before it and after have led me down such an amazing road in life.  Looking back at such a monumental anniversary it's nice to remind myself there are no regrets! Leading up to this I had a shift in my thinking.  "I have the rest of my life to work this office job, do the things 'expected' of me by society" and live up to whatever expectations I had built in my head of what life would be.  Here I was living and working as a professional in the career I had set out to start since day one of college 7 years before, but what was missing.  I had been working professionally for a few years and found my work exciting.  I was a coming of age gay man in the early 2000's Capital Hill neighborhood of Seattle.  A very exciting time to be there with protests, a budding design community and an eve

There was never any question in my mind when I started on this coding journey why I was getting into this industry.  I had seen models of great company culture, life/work balance, enthusiastic teams and engaging ever evolving work through so many friends' companies as well as job postings I knew where I belonged.   I have worked on and off for years in both great and terrible work environments.  In the end I've learned that the people are the single biggest factor in what makes a job worth giving up so much of your personal time.  Money sure, that's great, but in the end at a certain career level you have enough money to be fine, beyond that it's all just frosting.  When the money is no longer such a big reason as to why you go to work every day what is left?  The team you work with, the folks you connect with in other departments, the relationships you forge in those journeys with folks who quite frankly you spend more waking hours with than most do with their own

As a baby coder I am blessed to have such an amazing mentor.  A big part of what he has taught me is through how he gives back to the community. One of the most powerful lessons he has taught me along the way is when you see a bug on a website, trouble shoot it and let them know.  Don't just email them that the website is broken.  You have some knowledge, use it to at least go through the steps to recreate the problem, take screen shots and send a real report.  Inspect the code and give specific keys to where the problem is happening on the UX side. I recently came across a bug in one of my favorite local vendor websites and was able to come to two simple possible roots to the problem.  I've found that the exchange is always received favorably and with appreciation.  In this case there wasn't much to tell or test but typically I advise to go as deep as you can. When my mentor has shared bugs with me he inspects the code, digs into what divs and classes are affected a